Saturday, March 13, 2010

Other than candles and bath salts what is the best way to get a woman to relax/de-stress?

While bath salts, candles, and a massage are very nice. All us woman manage to do during those things is think about everything around the house that we should be doing instead. So... My favorite, is when my husband does things that make my day a little easier, and lets me sit down and take a load off. Like cook dinner, and clean up afterwards. Or give the kids a bath, and put them to bed without asking me to help. Its relaxing, and kind of a turn on too.Other than candles and bath salts what is the best way to get a woman to relax/de-stress?
Give her your credit card.its that simple :o)Other than candles and bath salts what is the best way to get a woman to relax/de-stress?
cuddle!
Massage...............dope?
win the lottery get her a slave and then maybe just maybe this will help !!! depends how long you have been with her she may need a new man !!!
what about a lovely massage/hand/foot rub..or a foot spa..aromatherapy candles/yoga/meditation or a nice indoor picnic %26amp; bottle of wine whilst snuggled up watching dvds on the sofa? candles!! XX
A massage, good conversation, a nice meal, snuggling in front of a movie, alchohol, or a new pair of pajamas.
a large glass of spirits. some time alone. extra money to spend.


a trip to a warm island.
You have a lucky woman. I like good beer- Guinness Extra Stout, Sarnac Pumpkin Ale is pretty great right now, a beer called Purple Haze. A warm bed. A good man. I am also a firm believer that we could all probably have a bit more sex in our relationship.
Go to your favorite spa.
a lovely bottle of wine, a long and warming hug, the house work done and the dinner cooked!
Sex. Seriously.
A nice relaxing massage : . )
back and foot massage!
Massage is always nice! You don't even have to be good at it.


Go to The Body Shop and get some Massage oil, and just do your best.





She'll definitely appreciate it!
start by asking if she wants to talk, she will already start to think about how her mood makes you feel this will start to make her think about relaxing. Then get her a nice glass of wine tell her you love her and ask if she would like to choose a film to watch this evening. a massage whilst watching the film with go down well.
Gentle stroking of the back, neck, bum, possibly back of the legs.





Also a good long foot rub always goes down well with me!





Or an ALL OVER massage.





BUT ALWAYS ASK IF ITS OK, WHILST YOUR DOING IT.


So say is that OK? Would you like me to do it harder? Softer, any where else you would like me to massage?





Or, just plain and simply as her what she likes!


Coz its her your doing it to. So who would know better than her!
A massage with quiet music and low lighting (scented candles) - it's good for both of you . . .
I can understand the candles,but surely the salts must hurt
cry out whole heartedly, go shopping, get a body massage, watch ur favourite movie, treat ur self...
Fu!k the candles and bath salts, massage is good, real good!! Or money to go spend on ANYTHING she wants,and it has to be a LOT OF MONEY so she dont get depressed when she sees something she really wants and cant have. A holiday to somewhere nice, a toyboy, sex or understanding from someone who she has been at logger heads with for a considerable amount of time. To be respected, understood and to feel free is the only way a woman cannot feel stressed.





Make sure no bills are in sight, no worries are on the cards and no demands from kids.





OH and a spliff realy does work if you want an instant relaxer. Trust me, if she dont smoke weed, then give her a brandy and coke. LISTEN to what she says and give her compliments. Make her life easier when she gotta get up for work. Get up 10 mins before her, run her bath, make her coffee/tea and toast, put the radio on a love station and watch her get ready and give her compliments as she is getting ready. She is shore to have a good day then. Or at least she will know you have TRIED, which to women is the MAIN thing as men ALWAYS somehow seem to get it wrong.





Goodluck mate. !! some women are non-pleasable.
~a massage, any kind!~
Tell her you'll be her slave for a day... bet she has you doing all sorts...lol
Glass of champagne and some chocolate cake.
Give her a massage! The other benefit of this is that if she is your honey, she'll probably be so impressed, that you'll get some!
BATH salts? Wow, I didn't know it was the medieval times. Um, a crisp walk outside first, a glass of wine, cozy blankets, perfect temperature, maybe a degree warmer than that, low lighting, make up a lie that she looks good, and then don't try anything- that will relax her.
yay
A good old neck and back massage with oils, and I love my feet massaging too, I could sit there for hours with someone massaging my feet. And No, I aint into kinky.
I think that the bath salts and candles work great if I can find quiet time to do this. If I can't, sometimes I just need a few hours of complete down time with no kids or husband. I know that is nearly impossible. My bed is the safest down time that i have once a week on a Sat. or Sun. afternoon.

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